The invaders are gone!! Not without some coaxing ... Ok, flat out throwing them out of our house on New Year's. It was such a nightmare. It will never be repeated. It was really just so awful for everyone. But it's over. My house is my own again. I knew it was bad, but didn't realize how bad until they were gone and I could breathe again. Happy days! 4 months ... 4 months of something that could have torn us apart at the seams but instead, all it did was pull the stitches tighter. So I guess something good did come out of it. Sadly, it's a lost relationship for Garf and it's been super hard on him. I would undo that if I could.
Little news ... (but it's almost as big to me as the big news is)
The day after the invaders left, I asked Garf, "When do I get my (MY) life back?"
And yes, I have my life back. Still some things to work on and figure out what this means for us now. But we'll get there. This hidden little doesn't have to hide. And Garf is doing an excellent job taking care of me. He was a
Having an up close and far too personal view of someone else's relationship the last few months ... I gotta say, I am feeling much more appreciative of what Garf and I have. I admit I spent a lot of time, too much time, focusing on all that was wrong when there was just so much that was right. *sigh* Hindsight right? lol